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Tems Reveals Why She No Longer Tolerates Men Wasting Her Time

Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Tems has opened up about her approach to dating, revealing that she has become more intentional about the kind of romantic situations she is willing to entertain.
The singer shared the perspective while reflecting on her experiences with men and how her outlook on relationships has changed over time.
According to Tems, she has little patience for situations where a man keeps her waiting or fails to show genuine seriousness. However, she suggested that she has moved beyond the stage where such experiences would affect her.
“I don’t like it when guys waste my time. But for me, never again. I don’t have that problem anymore. I’ve left the streets; I wouldn’t even say I was ever on the streets.”
Her comments point to a more deliberate approach to her personal life, with the singer making it clear that she is no longer interested in situations that do not align with where she is in life.
Tems, who has largely kept details of her romantic life out of the public eye, continues to maintain a strong focus on her music and global career while occasionally offering fans glimpses into her personal perspectives.
“I don’t like it when guys waste my time. But for me, never again. I don’t have that problem anymore. I’ve left the streets; I wouldn’t even say I was ever on the streets.” — Tems https://t.co/S05NgZSz7c
— YabaLeftOnline (@yabaleftonline) September 15, 2026
