Nigerian rapper and actor Falz has shared his perspective on marriage, advising young people not to feel pressured into settling down before they are 30 years old.
The 35-year-old made the remarks during an appearance on The BTS Reality Podcast, where he spoke about the importance of personal growth before making lifelong commitments. According to the rapper, many people only begin to develop the emotional, financial, and mental maturity needed for marriage after reaching their 30s.
Falz cautioned singles against letting family expectations, societal norms, or peer pressure dictate the timing of such an important decision. Instead, he encouraged people to focus on understanding themselves and building a solid foundation before taking the next step.
He explained that the twenties should be viewed as a period of exploration and self-discovery, where individuals are free to learn from life’s experiences, develop their careers, and enjoy the different phases of adulthood without the pressure of marriage.
“Getting married in your 30s is the best. Don’t let anyone pressure you into getting married before 30. By 30s, you have gained more life experiences. In your 20s, you are still figuring yourself out. Your 20s are for learning, growing, and enjoying life.
“In your 30s, you combine all the knowledge and try to direct your life. So, it is better to wait till your 30s before getting married,” he said.
While acknowledging that everyone’s journey is different, Falz’s comments add to the ongoing conversation about changing attitudes toward marriage and adulthood.
His view reflects a growing belief among many young professionals that personal development and stability should take priority over meeting traditional timelines.
The rapper’s remarks have since sparked discussion across social media, with many agreeing that marriage should be based on individual readiness rather than external pressure or societal expectations.
“Getting married in your 30s is best. Don’t let anyone pressure you. By then, you’ve gained more life experience. In your 20s, you’re still figuring yourself out. Your 20s are for learning, growing, and enjoying life.”
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