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Some people come into your life to use you – Efya laments
Ghanaian songstress Efya has openly shared her frustration with toxic relationships and fake friendships that have entered her life. In a post on her X (formerly Twitter) handle, the “Best in Me” hitmaker expressed her disappointment with individuals who deliberately enter one’s life with the intention of exploiting them for personal gain.
Efya revealed that people she considered part of her inner circle turned out to harbor negativity and malicious intentions behind her back. She highlighted the deceptive nature of these individuals, who would put on a facade of loyalty and friendship in her presence but engage in backbiting and betrayal when she wasn’t around.
This realization has led Efya to become more cautious in her approach to relationships, heightening her awareness of the people she allows into her life. Her candid expression resonates with many who have experienced similar challenges in navigating complex and sometimes deceptive social dynamics.
“It took me a while to realize that some people come into your life to USE YOU..!!! Damn!! They hate u.. but they stay cos of what they can get from u.. they talking shit behind your back when u ain’t there n kiss ur ass when u there … yeah.. and they swear they GENG …I know this now… EYE CLEAR…WE MOVE!!!!!!,” she expressed.
It took me a while to realize that some people come into your life to USE YOU..!!! Damn!! They hate u.. but they stay cos of what they can get from u.. they talking shit behind your back when u ain’t there n kiss ur ass when u there … yeah.. and they swear they GENG …I know…
— EFYA (@EFYA_Nokturnal) December 11, 2023
Efya’s honest revelation has struck a chord with her fans and followers, prompting an outpouring of support in the comments section. Many praised her for speaking out about the challenges of navigating toxic relationships and fake friendships.
The response indicates that her candid expression has resonated with others who may have experienced similar situations. The supportive messages reflect a shared understanding of the importance of vigilance in identifying and fostering genuine connections while being aware of deceptive individuals in one’s social circle.