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Tiwa Savage Opens Up on Motherhood, Career Setbacks, and Raising a Kind Son
Award-winning Nigerian singer Tiwatope Omolara Savage, widely known as Tiwa Savage, has spoken candidly about the emotional and professional impact motherhood had on her life, revealing deeply personal moments she rarely shares.
In a recent conversation with Korty EO, the 45-year-old music star reflected on her experience after childbirth, admitting that becoming a mother was not as smooth or joyful as many assumed. Tiwa disclosed that she had hoped for a baby girl and struggled emotionally when she was told she had given birth to a boy.
“Honestly, I didn’t bond with my son for the first year or two. I always wanted a girl. They told me it was a boy, and I started crying. So, when he came he was always crying and my body didn’t snap back. I looked horrible. I was supposed to do a campaign with Pepsi at the time and they turned me away. And I just thought this boy has destroyed me. But now, he is my best friend,” she said.
Beyond the emotional strain, Tiwa revealed that motherhood also affected her career at the time, as her physical changes led to missed professional opportunities. However, with time, healing, and growth, her relationship with her son transformed into one of deep love and friendship.
Now a devoted mother to her 10-year-old son, Tiwa says she is intentional about the values she instils in him, particularly how he treats women. Drawing from her own experiences in unhealthy relationships, the singer stressed the importance of raising a respectful and compassionate man.
“I always tell him, you mum suffered oo, make sure you treat any girl like a queen. It is very important for me to raise him as a good man. He is going to make mistakes, he is not perfect. But at the core of him, I want him to be kind,” she added.
Tiwa Savage’s honest reflections have resonated with many fans, sparking conversations around postpartum struggles, societal expectations of women, and the realities of balancing motherhood with a demanding career.