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I friend-zoned my husband for over one year – Adesua Etomi.
Nigerian artist, Adesua Etomi-Wellington disclosed that she “friend-zoned” her husband Bankole Wellington, aka Banky W, for a year and a half before finally saying yes to his marriage proposal.
The thespian spoke during service at the Waterbrooks Church, Lagos, on Sunday.
She said that she “friend-zoned” him in part because she had not received a message from God at the time.
She said, “I would like to say that friendship plays a very big role in laying the foundation of your relationship. I friend-zoned my husband for a year and half [laughs].
“I friend-zoned him for two reasons. One, I wasn’t sure that I have heard from God about whether this person was actually my person. Actually, three reasons. Second, marrying Banky W [laughs]. I was like, ‘my life on my own is chaotic enough, I would now marry Banky? No, no, no.’
“And then thirdly, just trying to at least have a friendship. And I honestly believe that the friendship we laid over a year and half has played a very big role in how our relationship is today. Banky W is my guy. I mean if you take away romance and sex and everything that makes a marriage, he would still be my guy. Banky is my best friend.”
Banky W inferred: “No, leave sex. Don’t take it away [laughs].”
"I friend zoned my husband for a year and half"
– Adesua Etomi-Wellington pic.twitter.com/l3NlONvZGT
— 🐬 @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) September 17, 2023